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Archbishop Gregory Aymond will ordain three men as priests for the Archdiocese of New Orleans on June 1 at a 10 a.m. Mass of Ordination at St. Louis Cathedral. The three transitional deacons are, from left, Deacon Austin Barr, Deacon Jorge Gomez and Deacon Cuong Minh Tran. The Clarion Herald spoke to each man about his hopes and dreams as a priest.
Deacon Austin Barr
Age: 27
Masses of Thanksgiving: June 2, 1 p.m. at St. Anselm; June 23, 10:30 a.m. at St. Dominic
Assigned parish: Divine Mercy
Thank you, Lord, for choosing me
By Beth Donze
Clarion Herald
Deacon Austin Barr said he knew he would feel the internal changes – the graces that filled his heart after his ordination to the transitional diaconate last May – but what surprised him was the sudden shift in how others perceived him externally.
“I wasn’t ‘just Austin’ anymore to people; I was ‘Deacon Austin,’” he said. “It was challenging to get into that new role.”
A graduate of Mandeville High School and a lifelong parishioner of St. Anselm Parish in Madisonville, Deacon Barr said his vocation was sparked during a silent retreat while studying kinesiology at the University of Louisiana in Lafayette. He assumed he was destined to follow his mother’s lead and pursue a career in occupational therapy.
“It was personal prayer, adoration and just an experience of God’s love – just the divine feeling of really being loved,” he recalled.
Deacon Barr said he learned a lot during his diaconate internship at St. Dominic, the bustling New Orleans parish of 3,400 families, 14 weekly Masses, nearly 40 ministries and 24/7 eucharistic adoration.
“There’s all kinds of stuff going on – and the school is huge, so going over there brought so much joy,” said Deacon Barr, who made a point of visiting students during lunchtime, so as not to interrupt classes.
“I would sometimes walk through the halls, but then the kids would freak out,” he said, smiling. “They all wanted me to guess their names. I would tell them, ‘I’m not a prophet. I can’t read minds!’ They’re just awesome!”
Deacon Barr administered baptisms, assisted at weddings and delivered homilies at daily, weekend and funeral Masses.
“Preaching was easier than I thought it would be – I thought I would be a little bit nervous,” he said, praising Father Wayne Paysse, St. Dominic’s pastor, for being a role model of grace under pressure as a diocesan priest leading a parish that previously had been administered by the Dominicans.
To take the pulse of the parish, Father Paysse conducted a series of coffee visits.
“He wanted to know not only what parishioners liked and didn’t like, but what their dreams for their parish were – I’m going to steal that (idea)!’’ Deacon Barr said. “He really showed what it means to be not only a leader but a servant – someone who listens and really cares.”
Deacon Barr said visiting the St. Dominic’s homebound was an especially sacred time for him. One particular woman who was at the end of her life “taught me that (the homebound) minister to you just as much as you minister to them,” he said. “She lit up, not because I was there, but because I brought the Blessed Sacrament. She just wanted to see Jesus’ face and experience him. I think we all get so caught up in everything else that’s going on in our lives – myself included – that we forget that the only thing that really matters, at the end of the day, is being with the Lord.”
At his ordination, Deacon Barr will be vested by Father Jeffrey Montz, his spiritual director for the past five years. His chalice, featuring fleurs-de-lis, thorns and roses, was previously owned by a French priest known only by the inscription “J.O.V., Paris, 1914.”
As the new parochial vicar at Divine Mercy Church in Kenner, Deacon Barr said he’s looking forward to celebrating Mass and administering the sacrament of reconciliation.
“There’s also some nervousness (about the latter),” he said. “But all the priests I know tell me that God provides so much to (the priest) who’s hearing the confession on behalf of Christ. People assume the priest is going to remember this or that, but a lot of them forget the sins (confessed to them); there’s an amnesia. I think it’s a sign of what is really happening in the mind of God – forgetting the sin.”
For vocational affirmation, Deacon Barr looks to the “humanness” displayed by Peter at the end of John’s Gospel. After answering “yes,” three times, to Jesus’ question – “Do you love me?” – Peter hears Jesus list the criteria for discipleship, immediately points to John, and says to Jesus, “What about him, Lord?”
“I really understand where Peter was coming from, because it can be strange to a lot of men – and to women called to consecrated life – to wonder, ‘Why am I being called?’ when there are so many seemingly holier people,” Deacon Barr said. “Rather than doing what Simon Peter did – asking, ‘What about that other guy?’ – I’m trying to turn it around and say: ‘Thank you for that, Lord,’ instead of, ‘You should have picked them!’”
Deacon Jorge Gomez
Age: 28
Mass of Thanksgiving: June 1, 6 p.m. at St. Margaret Mary
Assigned parish: St. Margaret Mary
Priests are there for every moment of life
By Kim Roberts
Clarion Herald
Deacon Jorge Gomez feels blessed to have had so many spiritual father figures guiding him through the seminary and life. He credits them with challenging, mentoring and encouraging him “like a good father would.”
“Father Geraldo Diaz is someone I admire so much,” Deacon Gomez said. “I was his parish secretary when I started the seminary in Florida (before coming to Notre Dame Seminary). He looked after me and took care of me. I am honored that he will vest me during my ordination.”
Over the last year, Deacon Gomez has learned that communication is crucial when it comes to serving parishioners. During his parish internship last year at St. Margaret Mary in Slidell, he developed a greater sense of tenacity and learned to take more initiative. Also, he received helpful feedback from parishioners, which he said will enable him to serve future parishioners better.
“Father Dan (Darmanin, pastor of St. Margaret Mary) has been great,” he said. “He gave me the resources and tools to fulfill my visions and put me in positions for the greatest successes. I was challenged in so many ways. Sometimes it was baptism by fire, but that is where I learned the most. He wanted me to stumble and learn from my mistakes.”
St. Margaret Mary has been Deacon Gomez’s home parish since moving to New Orleans from Miami eight years ago. He served as a transitional deacon and completed his internship in the parish and is glad to be going back there for his first assignment as a parochial vicar on July 1.
“Sometimes, I think the parishioners are more excited than I am that I am coming back to St. Margaret Mary,” he said. “I am so humbled by their excitement and enthusiasm. I plan to serve them as well as I can as one of their faithful priests. I feel at home there.”
Deacon Gomez added that parishioners are looking at him differently now. They always saw him as a spiritual leader, but now they are eager to see him as an ordained priest who will minister to them. He feels very fortunate that he will be able to serve them in different capacities.
“I’m looking forward to celebrating the sacraments and being present and immersed in the Mass,” he said. “I’m also looking forward to being a spiritual father and affirming and encouraging the community through their joys and sufferings.
“There’s a saying, ‘What a person goes through in a lifetime, a priest can go through in a day,’ and if you think about it, that’s true. In one day, a priest can have a baptism, first Communion, wedding, death of a loved one and a burial,” Deacon Gomez said. “It can be exhausting spiritually and physically, but it’s worth it and something I look forward to – being an instrument of God’s mercy.”
Deacon Gomez has gathered strength over the past year through his prayer life and credits Archbishop Emeritus Alfred Hughes for encouraging the seminarians to be spiritual priests.
“My prayer life has gotten me through for sure,” he said. “Archbishop Hughes told us that a good priest talks to the Lord and serves as his tool. I am supposed to be a man of prayer and faith, and for me, it is one of my responsibilities to help others develop their relationship with God every day.”
Deacon Gomez said his Florida entourage will be in attendance for the June 1 ordination – his brothers (Miguel and Elbertt), cousins, friends and clergy. He’s grateful so many people will be able to make the trip to New Orleans.
“My journey, to this point, has been fulfilling and arduous,” he said. “I’ve spent eight years at Notre Dame Seminary and a total of nine in formation, but everything was at God’s pace so I could grow. I am blessed to be where I am today and have so many family and friends that support me.”
The ordination card that Deacon Gomez chose is a print of the painting “Calvario,” depicting the crucifixion of Christ, by Spanish artist Raul Berzosa, whom he met in Florida while doing work at a Jesuit school.
“The ‘Calvario’ is one of my favorite paintings because you see the crucifix and our Lady,” he said. “It is a reminder of the sacrifice our Lord has made for us, his infinite love and mercy and how he laid down his life for us. That is what is expected from me as a priest, to lay down my life for the people I serve in the archdiocese.”
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Deacon Cuong Minh Tran
Age: 25
Masses of Thanksgiving: June 2, 3 p.m. at St. Agnes Le Thi Thanh; June 23, noon at St. Francis Xavier
Assigned parish: Mary Queen of Peace
Prayer, Jesus’ example will be priestly anchors
By Macie Capote
Clarion Herald
With just a few days left before his priestly ordination, Deacon Cuong Minh Tran said prayer was the main thing getting him through all the changes.
“I’ve been praying a lot through the Scriptures, and focusing on the Last Supper in John,” Deacon Tran said. “Reading those words that Christ told his apostles in the Last Supper and just putting myself in there; that’s really what priesthood is.”
Deacon Tran spent five months as a deacon intern at St. Catherine of Siena Parish, where he shadowed the parish’s pastor, Father Timothy Hedrick. From June to October of last year, Deacon Tran’s time was spent doing everything a pastor does. From preaching to celebrating baptisms and funerals, he got to see what true priesthood would be like.
“Father Tim’s schedule is so jam-packed; he’s a force of nature really,” Deacon Tran said, recalling being out with Father Hedrick from 7 a.m. to 8 p.m. some days. “Getting to know what a pastor does and all of their extra responsibilities was very good for me.”
Deacon Tran added that during his internship, he was evaluated by a committee composed of 15 people, eight chosen by Father Hedrick and seven by Deacon Tran, after every homily he delivered.
“It was a rigorous process,” Deacon Tran said. “I learned pretty fast what people like and what they don’t like.”
Deacon Tran said while adjusting to parish life was interesting, it was even stranger to go back to Notre Dame Seminary and focus on finishing his studies.
“It’s a whole different mindset,” he said.
But Deacon Tran said he’s extremely excited about getting back into parish life as a priest. Specifically, he is looking forward to being able to hear confessions.
“It’s a very beautiful thing, having confession readily available,” said Deacon Tran, whose assigned parish, Mary Queen of Peace in Mandeville, makes confession available for 30 minutes before each Mass.
Deacon Tran added that he is also looking forward to having a school in his parish. He recalled a time when he visited Mary Queen of Peace School, and he was giving out candy to kindergartners who could name all of the stations of the cross.
“The kids there are so knowledgeable,” he said. “They had all of them memorized.”
Deacon Tran will be vested at his priestly ordination by his uncle, Father John Tran, who was his inspiration for becoming a priest. His chalice features many scenes from Jesus’ life, including his birth, death and resurrection and more, with the hope that during Mass, the congregation could focus on those sacred images.
Deacon Tran’s prayer card depicts the famous image of Jesus on the cross; however, it also shows the Blessed Mother at the cross with him.
“It’s very beautiful to have a devotion to Mary as well, because at the cross, even though she wasn’t a priest, she offered her son,” Deacon Tran said. “And so, hopefully in my priesthood, with her intercession, I can be a good priest and offer the sacrifice.”
St. John Vianney, the French priest known as the Curé d’Ars who died in 1859, is Deacon Tran’s favorite saint. St. John Vianney grew his parish from the ground up and was able to reach the community through creating relationships and prayer.
“His story is really encouraging to me,” he said. “Wherever you’re assigned, as long as you live out your priestly life, then you are going to be a good priest there.”
Part of living out the priestly life has a lot to do with prayer and remembering what Jesus went through leading up to his passion. Deacon Tran said he identifies a lot with Jesus’ moment of intense prayer in the Garden of Gethsemane, especially during very tragic moments.
“A large part about the priesthood is praying in those moments of difficulty,” he said. “It’s comforting knowing that Jesus had all of us in mind while he was praying.”
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